Gentle Approaches with Kids - For Parents and Nannies

May 2

As our world becomes increasingly more complex and fast-paced, it's important for us as adults to be gentle, confident guides for children.

This means not only being a knowledgeable and experienced mentor, but also being approachable and kind-hearted in our interactions with kids. Here are some tips for being a gentle confident guide for children:

1. Create a Positive Environment - Children need a space where they feel safe and comfortable to explore, learn and grow. Encourage positive behavior, create an atmosphere of mutual respect, and model good manners.

2. Be Consistent and Reliable - Children thrive on routines and consistency. Be consistent in your interactions with them, and follow through on commitments you make with them. This establishes a sense of trust and helps build their self-confidence.

3. Set Clear Boundaries - Clear boundaries will help your children feel secure and understand what is expected of them. Children need to know that there are certain things that are not acceptable, but they should also understand the reason behind your rules.

4. Encourage Exploration - Allow your children to explore the world around them. It is important to let children take risks, make mistakes, and learn from them. Support them in their endeavors, even if they don't succeed at first. Being adventurous helps them to be more confident. Encourage their interests, ideas, and emotions. Let them know that you believe in them and their abilities.

5. Listen and Observe - Listening and observing is a key component of being a gentle, confident guide for children. Be present when you're interacting with them, and listen actively to what they have to say. Repeat their words or paraphrase what they've said to show you're understanding. Ask follow-up questions to show you're interested in what they have to say. Children communicate in different ways, and it's up to you to interpret them.

6. Be Patient and Compassionate - It's important to be patient and compassionate when guiding children, especially when they're struggling with something or feeling overwhelmed. Be understanding of their feelings and avoid harsh criticism or negative feedback. Keep in mind you have plenty of years ahead of them learning about how our world works and how to regulate your feelings. Offer gentle guidance and support, while allowing them to learn and grow at their own pace.

7. Encourage Independence - If you want your children to be confident and independent, start by giving them simple tasks that they can do to contribute to the household, sometimes you’ll have to redo it but in the end it will benefit both parties.

Finally, remember that parenting is a journey, and while we may not always get everything right, the goal is to help our children develop into confident and independent human beings. At Nanny Harmony, we’re always open to suggestions that help all of us to be more mindful guides of little ones.